If you are a man living abroad or in the U.S. and If you are finding it hard to meet people, I have good news for you. I have used various matching apps in the U.S.
This time, I would like to introduce some of the best apps for someone who is a man from other countries with my own experiences.
This article is written for:
- Those who are looking to meet someone for a long term abroad.
- Those who want to have a girlfriend in another country.
This article is for all men who want to meet and have fun with girls abroad.
First of all, there are many dating and matching apps out there, but there are three that I have used and found to be good for men who are from abroad: Tinder, TanTan, and Hinge.
Tinder is a matching app that everyone knows.
The features of this app are that you will be matched more reliably than other apps, and girls will reply to your messages comparatively more often than other apps. So, although it probably wastes a lot of unnecessary communication with scams, if you can spend it then, you can meet as many people as you want.
The women who use this app range in age from 20’s to 50’s and include cute girls, model level girls, and of course, plump girls. You can meet various types of women.
You can also specify your age range and area, so you can set up meetings with women near where you live.
However, you have to be careful because there are a bunch of catfishing and scam accounts. One thing to note here is that most of the model-level accounts are hookup accounts. If they probably say hi at first contact and right away to tell the man like “my number is ××××××, hit me up!”, So, it’s pretty much easier to recognize them.
Or If you think like I don’t give a fuck any of the women who are hooking up with you, then just have fun. It may be a fun night by intentionally hooking up with a woman, but be careful because you may get into money troubles or crimes. If you are too busy with work to go out anywhere at all, I would like you to give this app a try.
To be honest, the probability of meeting someone is definitely higher than the other apps listed below. I recommend the dating apps I am recommending here as better than the others because they have a higher chance of matching.
I have also used Bumble, POF (Plenty of Fish), Coffee Meet Bagel, and OkCupid, so this is a comparison to those apps.
- I thought Coffee Meet Bagel was pretty good, but you have to pay for bagels(you need to have a lot of bagels to send messages.) and the matching rate is low.
- Bumble is a good choice for women, but I removed it because I think men still prefer to be aggressive rather than wait. But, I think it is a good app for those who used it once and didn’t find it a good fit with Tinder. The reason is that after liking someone, you can wait for a woman to choose you and start a conversation with her, so there is less wasted time for men. However, the matching rate is not as high as Tinder.
- As for POF, it doesn’t make much sense if you don’t pay, and you get a lot of messages but no replies even if you sent it back to them. And there are a lot of scam accounts.
- I also used OkCupid for a few months. It is completely free, and the good feature is that you can go to a meeting. After messaging quite a few times, I met up with a woman at Starbucks, but no such woman showed up at all, and I remember having an experience of receiving suspicious messages. Because this app is completely free, there are also many scam accounts.
For the above reasons, Tinder is the best app for me.
[Tinder]
Tinder is also a free way to meet people.
The result is that you can get this many likes and matches in one night. After all, if you don’t enjoy using an app, you feel like you’re wasting your time, but I think people use Tinder because it keeps them from getting bored. At this time, I was matched with two American women.
Next, it is called “TanTan.”
TanTan is an app like Tinder from China. The usage is almost the same as Tinder. And I recommend it to Asians men because you can match with a lot of Asians girls and the matching rate is higher than Tinder. The range of girls is also broad, just like Tinder. One difference is that 90% of the girls are Asian. There are also many cute girls.
You can also specify your age range and location, so you can set up meetings with women near where you live as well. There are similar catfishing problems and a lot of scam accounts on this app as well, so be careful of the same things I described for Tinder.
Particularly obvious is that such catfishing women will always try to get information from you to contact you via WhatsApp account or number or other apps. And although it has a phone feature, they will not want to have a phone conversation with you. It is best to avoid such accounts. If you use TanTan with the above in mind, you have a pretty good chance of meeting someone.
You can be like; Matched! → Messaged several times → Dated that day
There was a case that I ended up going on a date that day.
Many of the girls on this app are from China and are looking for friends who have just arrived in the U.S., so you can meet them relatively quickly. American women may not be available. Most of the women I met were from overseas, Asian women from Thailand, China, Taiwan, and Singapore.
[TanTan]
It’s a great way to meet Asian women in the U.S.
With this many matches in one night, the app is quite gratifying for men who love Asian women and living in the U.S., where it is very difficult to meet people. After you message a few times, you can ask them about their Instagram, etc. and become friends. However, you will get a lot of matching and reply messages, but most of them are scam accounts. Unfortunately, you will also spend a lot of your time.
The way to spot them so you don’t waste too much time is telling them you want to call them at first or ask them after a couple messages you received from her.
If they refuse, chances are good that it is not a legitimate account anymore. Maybe, Better to save up your time for others like your right girls. Well, it is up to you whether you continue or not. I just do not recommend it to you.
Finally, let’s talk about Hinge.
Hinge is a little different from the other apps I mentioned.
Tinder and TanTan are based on photos alone, so you can choose whether or not to include detailed information, but this app allows you to make various settings and improve your profile to increase matches.
Compared to the other two apps, in my personal opinion, the women are less attractive. The reason is that there are many women who are looking for serious encounters, and because there are fewer accounts for one-night stands or hookups, due to the large number of people who are average looking, and it may be harder to find the kind of woman you are looking for.
Instead, it is recommended for men who are looking for serious encounters. The matching rate is also still not that great, but matches are made even on the first day.
[Hinge]
She was a 32 year old woman.
Compared to some apps that don’t meet or even match after 3 months, this app is quite good. However, in my experience, I got the impression that messages were not returned very often.
In this case, I was matched, but the women did not reply.
I don’t know if this is a so-called scam account or not, but it’s pretty disappointing not to get a message back even if we are matched.
That’s all I have to say.
In summary:
- Tinder and TanTan have a high matching rate and you can meet really real women. However, you need to be careful because of the high matching rate and the number of scam accounts.
- The point to be careful is whether they want your information and not you.
- Tinder has a lot of American women to meet, while TanTan has a lot of Asian women from overseas.
- Hinge is good for men looking for serious dating. It is a good app for those who are not focused on looks, as there are not many model-level women that what you’re expecting. However, for some reason I don’t get many messages back after matching.
Meeting with women abroad is a courageous move.
You may wonder what this article is about when I say this, but I still think that men should be aware of women and they will lean on you by pursuing their own goals diligently without focusing on women.
Confidence is the most important thing. All men, We must have it.
I used to think about women so much that I could not concentrate on myself at all.
However, the matching apps took away and damaged my self-esteem at that time.
The thing is, as much as you can meet a lot of women, there will be many cases where the opposite will not work out.
If you are considering using a dating app, I would recommend the following; I want you to know that raising your self-esteem. I want you to do this first. It is dangerous to use dating apps without a sense of acceptance of who you are, that you will be okay with the dating apps. The world of matchmaking is a very lawless place, and to be honest, women’s egos are also very mean to men, it is vice versa.
I was a weak man, and I lost a lot of self-esteem because of it. There was a time when I really thought I was worthless. I strongly recommend that you give it a try, if you are already okay with these situation like mentally shunned, or if women say terrible things to you or neglect you, just try it out and see what happens.
However, I wanted to share this experience with you because there are many ways to meet women, and I hope you will consider this as an idea to make friends in your life. It doesn’t matter if you do it on the Internet or on the street.
You can become one if you keep on increasing your opportunities. And it’s also very good for both parties to meet and experience more and more women and to be able to entertain them.
I hope that we can continue to improve each other’s manhood together and this article will be of some help to you. If you are considering using a dating app, I would be happy if you would try it and share your thoughts with me.
Thank you for reading.
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