Being a business owner is lonely.
I think it’s often said, and I really think so too.
You may not be able to ask for advice even if you want to,
and you may find it difficult to talk to people about your ideas when you’re running a business.
Many of your ideas are quite ridiculous, so when you talk to your friends, you’ll probably not get any positive feedback, and you’ll often get negative feedback.
For example, some common phrases you’ll hear are,
“That’s difficult. Impossible.”
“There’s no way it will work.”
“You don’t have the skills.”
You’ll probably hear a lot of negative comments like these.
This happens are common in situations of work, dream and love.
Possibilities are often denied from the start. I think this is because we’ve been taught that failure is not a good thing, but if it’s true, you can’t decide at that point whether it will work or not, because the results haven’t come out yet.
Because you don’t want to hear words that deny your possibilities, you may not be able to tell others about your business or what you want to do in the future, and you may end up living alone.
Solitude, for better or worse, is necessary to “know yourself.”
I want those who think loneliness is bad to keep these words in mind.
Most people die without “knowing themselves” well in their lives, but those who are lonely should think of it as an opportunity to know themselves more deeply.
The good things that happen when you know yourself
are definitely a step towards feeling happy.
Live with a clear idea of what you want to do, what you are interested in, and what you should do.
This becomes a hope.
Many people cannot do this.
I don’t know if you know it or not, but without talking to yourself, there is no way you can know what you want to do, who you want to marry, what kind of success you want to achieve, where you want to live, and what you want to accomplish.
However, those who are reading this article are already able to live their “own life” that is not anyone else’s.
I think that in order to create your own beliefs and calmly carry out the actions that are your aspirations without being possessed by others, it is necessary to not do or let go of various things.
If all these “various things” are coming to you, it means that you yourself want them.
We can only respond to what we think. Or rather, we can only realize what our brains can think.
And vice versa;
what we think and do appears before our eyes.
Yes, I think that everything that is happening in reality and what we have achieved so far is something we have thought about before. Even sudden accidents and injuries may have been something we have thought about before.
This means that
feeling lonely is also a choice we made.
If you don’t, it might be a good idea to take some time to think about it.
In reality, you’re unconsciously thinking,,
“I wanted to be alone.”
“I wanted to cut off all my troublesome relationships and make things easier for myself.”
If you are feeling lonely and worried right now, and have searched the internet and come across this article, I believe you are now ready to make loneliness your ally and enrich your life.
From my experience, the process of making your life richer is:
Be born → Live freely (as a child) → Enter society → Things don’t go as well as they used to → Worry → Society and relationships are a pain → You’d rather be alone → Feel lonely → Learn to ask yourself questions → Know yourself → Know your surroundings and the world → Become spiritually rich (freedom).
This doesn’t apply to everyone.
I think it’s a good indicator for people who feel lonely and are struggling because of the feeling of working hard alone.
Yes, loneliness is a process to becoming rich.
Just like failure is a process to success,
loneliness is also a process to becoming spiritually rich.
Especially if you’re trying and trying various things now and not succeeding, you tend to look down on your own value and feel even more lonely, right?
So, some people may think that they have no value in this world.
But it’s the failures you’ve made so far that have value.
Even if you are alone, struggling and running without being understood by anyone, there is value in that.
Not everyone can do it. Only you can do it.
When you feel lonely, it is also a chance to trust yourself more. It can also be said to be a training period to believe and move forward.
I want you to know the value of spending time doing what you want, rather than consuming and living according to what other people think is right for you.
If you believe, you will definitely get results.
That also means that if you don’t believe, you won’t get results.
If you can’t believe in yourself, it won’t work.
So, take some time alone to imagine yourself coming up with a fun idea that will inspire you or make you successful, and then shift your mindset to make it seem like you’ve succeeded.
Sometimes the grass is always greener on the other side, but
Think about what you really want to achieve and your goals for yourself.
It is also necessary so that you don’t mistake to seek other people’s goals for your own goals.
It is normal that people with high aspirations will fail. Because you try things outside of the comfort zone that are normally unthinkable or thought to be impossible.
In summary,
Solitude is a period to get to know yourself.
You have entered a stage where you truly believe in achieving your aspirations and live your own life, not someone else’s.
This will ultimately enrich your relationships with the world and those around you and change your life. By not being defeated by your current situation and believing in your own growth, you will be able to obtain what you want and the goals you want to achieve; this is the passing point.
You can only accomplish what you truly believe and think about.
That’s all.
This article is aimed at people who are suffering from loneliness, but by using your time alone to improve yourself, you will be able to change your life in the future.
Thank you for reading.
ZenJin